Tag: personal growth
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Moonwalking Gorilla: The Things We Never Notice
The other day I came across a brilliant video. The viewers were asked to count the number of passes made by a team dressed in white. There was another team in black moving around in the frame, but they seemed irrelevant to the task. The instruction was clear. Focus on the white team. Count carefully.…
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Becoming the Statue!
Practicing the Sculptor’s Secret in My Own Life In an earlier article, I wrote about the sculptor who sat before a massive block of stone until he could see the statue hidden within it. He did not rush to prove his skill. He did not strike the stone simply to create the appearance of progress.…
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Where Your Attention Goes, Your Life Follows
On Why avoiding the wrong things often leads us straight to them
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The Screen We Carry
A simple story on the hidden lens that guides our thoughts, reactions and choices. Ram and Shyam were sitting on the steps near their old school, watching people move along the street. A young man rushed ahead with irritation on his face. A little later, a woman paused near a stray dog, placed a biscuit…
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The Map We Mistake for the World
How Perspective Shapes What We See and What We Miss Most disagreements in life are not what they seem. They are about the maps we all use to navigate our reality. Two people can look at the same situation and walk away with completely different conclusions. Each is convinced they are right, each carries evidence…
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One Degree Off: How Small Choices Add Up Over Time
When Integrity Meets the Math of Time Every sailor knows this truth long before they learn anything else: the ocean rewards attention and punishes carelessness. Before the ship leaves the harbour, the navigator studies the charts, checks the coordinates and ensures every small measurement is correct. Nothing is left to assumption. Nothing is taken lightly.…
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When the Past Designs the Future: A Story About Context
How Context Shapes Everything that follows There is a story that feels almost unbelievable at first. You read it once, think it is an amusing historical coincidence, and move on. Its when you pause and look again, something deeper appears. The story becomes a mirror that shows how our world grows, how our choices ripple…
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The Debt, The Delay and The Lesson
Here is an old story I had come across years ago. Back then it felt like a simple tale, almost forgettable. As the years passed, I realized how much of the choices we make in life is reflected in it. The Debt No One Wanted To Face Ramesh had borrowed one thousand rupees from his…
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The Lens we carry: How we see our work shapes the life we create!
The story of three laborers and the vision they carried There was a church being built in a small town. It was a large project, one that brought in laborers from many parts of the country. The days were long, the tools were worn and the sound of chisels and stone echoed across the site.…
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The Rookie’s Lesson: Choosing Life Over Resistance
Sometimes a choice feels decided even before it arrives. The state of mind we are in starts guiding everything without our awareness. This story begins in one such moment.